Friday, March 20, 2009

Squashed like a Bug

Okay, I realize that my last post was vague and led some of you to believe that I was pregnant. Let me just squash that rumor right now. NO, I am not. Most of you know that I do want to have another kid, but that ain't going to happen right now. When I said fun and games-I was being a bit facetious-go figure.
I am married to an amazing man who lives a very disciplined life driven by allergies and sensitivities to many things.
There is a reason I don't : wear perfume, wear smelly lotion, wear makeup, use scented laundry detergent, own a pet, order pizza on the weekends, let the door to door sales man in my house with the latest and greatest cleaning product, burn candles, attend/host candle parties,use air fresheners in the bathroom-and sometimes that would be nice, eat out often, drink tap water, cook with tap water, stay at home when we use pest control, cook with sugar or eggs if Steve is going to try to eat it. Enough of the do nots. There are still so many things that we enjoy in life. And by avoiding certain things-Steve has a great life. Things just get out of whack sometimes.
In Feb Steve got the awesome cold virus that was going around, and affecting the ears. Imagine a child' ear infection as an adult. He hasn't been a work for several weeks b/c who wants to let him climb poles and work with "hot" power when he is having dizzy spells? Apparently not APS. Now this is were it gets good.
On Thurs (the 12th) Steve was getting ready to call his doctor so that he could get cleared to go back to work. Someone else had other plans for us. I was taking care of some stuff in my room and walked past the computer room to find Steve laying on the floor. That's cool-really it is, we have tile floor in the entire house. So I thought it was strange that he would choose the floor to lay down on rather that a couch or bed. When I tried to get him up, he wasn't responding to me. LONG story short-Steve had some "seizures "and I called 911 and we spent 38 hours at the abomination of a hospital, Del Webb. Side note-If you value prompt care or want good care-don't go there!!!!! They will send you home even if you are having "seizure like activity" and tell you to just take the medicine. If it didn't stop the "tremors" in the hospital, why would it stop them at home? Cause it didn't.
So on Monday (the 16th) Steve and I flew to Salt Lake to see Dr. Remington. We figured that if he can find a parasite in the intestines (last year), that he could help figure out what was causing the "tremors". My very cool brother Caleb and his sweet wife Annie let us crash at their apt in Orem for a few days while we went to Dr Remington, and then the neurologist that he referred us to. She was great but we couldn't stay in Utah for weeks or months while she tried to discover the reason for the "tremors". She told us to come home and try to find a doctor in Phoenix. But it was worth trying to see if she could help while we were in town. We still don't know why Steve is having these "tremors" but we are going to keep trying to get to the root of the problem. The good thing is that epilepsy has been ruled out.
So if I checked out for a week and I am not around much in the next few weeks, I am just feeling like I got squashed like a bug, a big bug!

11 comments:

Heidi Joncas said...

Wow! What a crazy few days. I hope things can settle down for you and you can find a good doctor down here. If you need anything just let me know.

Dave and Corey Johnson said...

Torrie, I am so sorry. How scary. I hope everything is ok.

Amie said...

Oh my gosh Torrie, how scary! I'm so sorry for you guys. You really didn't need this stress right now! I almost feel like it would have been a good thing to get the epilepsy diagnosis--cuz at least then, you would know what it is and how to treat it! Good luck and I hope you find a good doc. Sorry Del Webb was so crappy to you!

Jenna said...

Hey you, I like the analogy of you being squashed like a bug. But you are the most BEAUTIFUL and RESILIENT bug I have ever seen! Steve is so lucky to have you taking care of him, even if you do almost poke his eye out while he's having his seizures. :)

Anonymous said...

Holy cow, that's crazy. Please let me know for realsies if there's anything you need. :)

Ash said...

Very scary! Rich had his first seizure while holding Killi at 3 monthes old. She was pinned between his legs while convulsed. Scariest thing I have ever seen/delt with. As for being with child, I was messing with you. I would hope you would tell me...so I was teasing. I realy do love you, and hope all is well! Miss you like crazy!

Anonymous said...

I am sorry about Steve! I hope everything else is going okay. I have to admit I was one of those thinking you were pregnant! I want to see you before I go! This Friday will be our last day here. Call me or email if you have time.....

wittygal said...

I am so sorry that you got squashed. I will pray for your family.

Sam said...

It's been awhile since I've been able to watch the girls, so please call me if you need to go/do something with out them. I hope steve is ok! miss you!

Kendra said...

Wow Torrie! I'm so sorry. I understand the frustration of not knowing. My BIL works in the medical field, and knows most of the doctors in the valley. I will ask him if he knows a good Neurologist if you want.

Casey Lu said...

I am SOOO sorry that has happened! I will pray for Steve, the girls, and you! If there is anything I can do please let me know! Sure do miss your family! You are such a strong and faithful daughter of God and I know that no matter what tribulations he throws your way, you will weather them with faith and come out stronger in the end! Hang in there, let me know how your doing!